It is important for every woman to have a full accounting of the financial assets of the marriage. Especially for couples who have been married for many years and have expensive items. As a spouse, you are entitled t the equity in all the marital assets.
If your spouse decided to sell the boat, you are entitled to your fair share!
How do you obtain this information if he does not want to be the loving and honest husband he used to be?
If your name is on any account, you have access to that information!
Loans
Mortgage
Car Note
Bank Accounts
Investment Accounts
Start looking for financial data is in the past year income tax returns to gain a since of house hold income and expenses. You can get a copy from your tax accountant. You may need to hire an attorney to obtain the information you need. Documenting your request for this information and the refusal of your former spouse to be compliant is the perfect time to get a Family Court Journal. More situations will rise where he will be uncooperative, and you will want to have documented all his actions! When he does not get his own way and becomes aggressive, this needs to be noted, and if it escalates to violence, then a Personal Protection is needed. Men could care less about protection orders, after all it is just a piece of paper.